Michelle Moore

You know that old saying “it’s all about who you know” – in regards to getting opportunities in ANY field you are in, whether it’s the Corporate or Creative job market? Well – I think it’s less about “who” you know, and more about WHEN, and WHERE you are when you know that person. I am totally amazed about the coincidences and chances life has presented me, purely because I’m always chatting with people, strangers, clients, friends – online and in person – EVERYWHERE! It’s important to put yourself out there on a daily basis, verbally express your thoughts, needs, wants and desires – because you never know who may be listening (both metaphorically and physically!). You’d be surprised what those around you have to offer – you may not even realize the connections in your own backyard!

To put it in perspective – I would not be where I am today without a series of chance meetings, occasions on which I spoke openly about my hopes and dreams, thoughts, and collaborated with people I was present with. I met [Jenny Bowker] 6 years ago simply because I chatted with a customer at a retail store I worked at (her sister!).

In short, here are my little steps and thoughts about connecting yourself more with your peers and networks….

*Be friendly, chatty and personable with strangers. Be genuine. Something may come up in conversation and you mention a project you or a friend are working on. They may or may not have something to offer, and/or they mention something you can help out with too!
*Put yourself out there and do not be afraid if something doesn’t transpire immediately. We are so used to living in an “instantaneous” world – but that is not the norm. Ideas, projects and dreams take time to grow. Allow yourself time to nurture them.
*Ask questions, offer help and share your own resources – they say you get what you give!
*Be prepared to leap again and again – and fall many times before succeeding. Do NOT give up!
*Send positive energy out into the world – and discuss, write down, and/or share your ideas. You never know who may be listening!

What are your serendipitous moments in life? What do you do to connect with your network and peers? How do you get what you want (and give in return?)
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Hair & Makeup for Hailey by, [Jenny Bowker]